Resources
The Divorce Network Pro Directory offers practical tools, expert guides and ready-to-use templates to help you move through divorce with greater clarity and confidence. Our goal is to make this challenging time easier to navigate so you can make informed decisions, reduce stress and begin building your next chapter with peace of mind.
Divorce Podcasts
These are divorce related podcasts that are great resources for anyone going through divorce.
Been There Got Out Podcast
Struggling with a high-conflict divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell? BTGO offers practical, actionable advice "from the trenches." Subscribe for tips on communication, parenting, and navigating the family court system.
Co-parenting Beyond Conflict with Sol Kennedy
A podcast for parents navigating the hardest kind of co-parenting—when every message feels like a minefield, and peace feels out of reach.
Narcissistic Abuse Support Podcast
Tracy A. Malone is a dynamic Author, Speaker, Educator, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach. Tracy has a bestselling book, “DIVORCING A NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up!”. Tracy's podcast, Narcissistic Abuse Podcast, delves into topics specific to narcissistic abuse and how to heal.
Divorce Apps and Tools
Divorce Tools & Apps to Make Life Easier Our Divorce Resources section features a curated list of trusted apps designed to simplify every aspect of the divorce and co-parenting process. From tools that help you communicate calmly and clearly with your ex, to shared calendars for managing your children’s schedules, and budgeting apps to keep your finances on track — these resources help you stay organized, reduce conflict, and feel more in control. Whether you’re navigating parenting time, tracking expenses, or managing important documents, these practical tools support you in creating a smoother, more cooperative divorce experience.
Secure Split
Our SecureSplit suite is a coordinated pair of tools that support both the public and professionals with the financial side of divorce. The two versions are designed to work together, but they serve different users and use cases. SecureSplit Essentials A guided divorce money organizer for individuals
Best Interests App
The only court-approved co-parenting app that actually reduces conflict. BestInterest is the best co-parenting app for high conflict families, helping parents communicate calmly, document safely, and focus on their children — not the conflict.
SplitSmart
SplitSmart.com is your must have divorce organization tool for property division, co-parenting plans, and child support. Divorce isn’t what drains you-games and drama do. SplitSmart keeps it transparent, structured, and civil. SplitSmart, NOT Hard.
Aimee Says
Aimee Says is AI Support for Relationship Abuse. Get confidential support, journaling and legal-prep tools—anytime. You don't need a label to deserve support or proof to start healing. You just need a place to talk — and Aimee is here 24/7. Meet Aimee - Your Personal Support Companion Aimee is an AI support system for people in unhealthy or abusive relationships.
Starting Your Divorce
Starting the divorce process can feel overwhelming and it’s normal to not know where to begin. These resources will help you take those first steps with clarity and confidence. These resources outline the key stages of how to start the divorce process, offering straightforward guidance so you can better understand what to expect and how to prepare. From understanding your legal options to organizing important documents, you’ll find the essential information you need to make informed decisions. You don’t have to navigate this alone. Use these resources to build a strong foundation as you move forward.
Split.fyi
Divorce is Hard. Split.fyi is here to Help. Join a community that gets it. Get expert advice from divorce financial analysts, coaches, and mediators, build your strategy, and find connections—all in one place. Find the support, tools, and community you need —no matter where you are in your divorce journey.
What's the Difference Between a Therapist and a Divorce Coach?
As you navigate divorce, you may wonder whether you need a therapist, a divorce coach or both. While these two professionals can play important roles in your journey, they serve very different purposes. Here’s a breakdown to help you understand the difference and how each can support you in different ways.
Should I Get A Divorce?
Making the decision to divorce is one of the most difficult decisions anyone can make. If you’re struggling with this decision, this guide will provide guidance and tools to give you some clarity.
The Basics of the Divorce Process
This guide provides an overview of the different divorce options available including mediation, collaborative divorce, and traditional litigation to help you determine which path may be the best fit for your situation. It also covers key elements of the divorce agreement, such as parenting arrangements and financial considerations, and introduces the various professionals who can support you throughout the process.
Mediation and Legal Resources
Divorce is deeply personal, and so is the process you choose to resolve it. Whether you're looking for a peaceful path through mediation, need legal representation, or want to explore alternative options like arbitration or collaborative law, there are many options where you can avoid a long, contentious court battle. Every divorce is unique, and the best process depends on your circumstances, your goals, and your willingness to collaborate. Our resources provide you with clear information and trusted professionals to help you move forward with confidence on your terms.
Emotional & Mental Health Resources​
Divorce isn’t just a legal or financial event, it’s an emotional journey. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, grieving the end of a relationship, or struggling to navigate life’s new rhythm, it’s important to know: what you’re feeling is valid, and support is available. This section offers tools and resources to help you care for your emotional well-being during and after divorce. Divorce can trigger anxiety, depression, loneliness, or even a loss of identity. Prioritizing your mental health is essential to help you process your emotions and build resilience. You are not alone. There are many resources that can connect you to others who understand what you're experiencing. No matter what stage of the divorce process you're in, your emotional health matters. Our goal is to give you the support, guidance, and space you need to feel whole again in your own time, and in your own way.
Financial Resources
Divorce can be emotionally and financially overwhelming. Whether you're just beginning the process or working through the final details, we've put together financial resources designed to support your transition and help you make informed decisions about your future. You're Not Alone Divorce marks a major life change but with the right financial tools and support, it can also be a fresh start. If you're overwhelmed and need additional support, the financial professionals in the DNP directory can help you navigate through this complex and challenging time. Many offer free consultations so be sure to reach out!
Financial Budgeting Tool
This budget spreadsheet is an example of what you'll need to create your budget as you go through the divorce process. Each state has different requirements so check with your state to see if there's a budgeting worksheet that you're required to complete.
How to Minimize the Cost of Divorce
Divorce can be emotionally and financially overwhelming. One of the biggest worries that people have is how much divorce costs. This guide will provide tips and tools to minimize the cost of divorce.
Parenting and Co-parenting Resources
Divorce brings big changes especially for families with children. Whether you're navigating the early days of separation or adjusting to life as co-parents, there are resources designed to support you in creating a stable, healthy environment for your kids. Co-parenting works best when both parents are committed to communication, flexibility, and putting their child’s needs above all else. We offer tools to help you build a working partnership with your co-parent, even when it’s challenging, information on how to support your children's emotional well-being and guidance for managing stress, grief and staying grounded so that you can be there for your children. Divorce can be tough on families, but it can also be an opportunity to build new routines, set healthier boundaries, and model resilience for your children. These resources are here to support you every step of the way.
8 Guidelines for Separated and Divorcing Parents
The 8 Guidelines for Separated and Divorcing Parents will help you make life more manageable and help your family come out stronger. You'll have a foundation for how to protect your children and your own mental health as you go through divorce.
Parenting and Co-parenting Tips
Parenting through a divorce can be challenging, but with the right resources, parents can navigate this difficult transition while minimizing negative impacts on their children. Below are valuable parenting resources that offer guidance, support, and practical tips for divorced or separated parents.